GLBT Expo
Apparently I can’t never get away from New York for too long, I was just there for CineKink NYC, and now I’m going BACK for the GLBT Expo! I’ll be at the Expo (now in it’s 20th year!) signing with HotMoviesForHer.com. While I’ve signed posters at release parties and recently had the pleasure of autographing...
Safer Sex Can Be HOT!
Note: this is a follow up of my previous post Safer Sex in Queer Porn and The Condom Debate, which appeared on this site last year, and which I still feel is relavent in the “condom debate.” With the recent backlash against barriers from some in the adult industry, I wanted to join my friend...
Doing It Again: Support Tobi Hill-Meyer’s New Trans Woman Porn Project
Mahatma Gandhi once said, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” Though he may have not been thinking about pornography when he said it, the message most definitely applies to sexual expression and visibility. It’s been my motto, in porn and otherwise — it’s a matter of being pro-active and creating positive...
Tough Titties: Instagram Ban on Nudity
Instagram, an addictively fun social photo network recently acquired by Facebook, is now undeniably extremely conservative when it comes to posts containing nudity or suggestive sexuality. I learned this the hard way a few weeks ago when I posted some photos from a shoot, including a nude-ish image of me and Danni Daniels. I uploaded...
Najva Sol & Molly Crabapple’s “Transmography” Lomography Gallery Show
I’ll be attending the San Francisco exhibition for “Transmography: Thirteen Fairytale Portraits of Queers Beyond the Gender Binary“, a gallery collaboration by Molly Crabapple and Najva Sol. The last time I was in NYC, I had the pleasure of shooting with Najva and a lomo camera. Working in analogue is a rarity these days. There’s something so...
THE SKINNY
THE SKINNY centers on a group of four young, black, gay men — Magnus, Sebastian, Kyle, Joey — and their lesbian friend Langston, who meet up in New York City after a year after graduation from Brown University. From skinnythemovie.com: “Drinking, drugs, hidden desire and the demands of promiscuity put friendship, trust and even lives at...
Intersections of Erotic Performance Art & Pornography
I’m on the road again, this time headed to SXSW. It’s been a few years since I’ve attended the annual Music/Film/Tech conference, and so I was excited to be invited by Femina Potens to present at one of the special after events. The event will be a series of short presentations, followed by a panel...
Gay Gay Gay Gay Gay June
(Video for Queerly Beloved. See below for more info.) So much Gay! Every June San Francisco’s Queer Arts Festival bursts with events. Being gay, it’s always a super busy month! Here’s what I’ve got going on, you ready? Wednesday June 22nd SF Bay June Queer/Leather Happy Hour – Pride Edition The Mix SF Come to...
Ecosex & Art in Ecosexual Symposium SF
This weekend is the 2nd Ecosexual Symposium, the love child of LoveArtLab‘s wedding wives Elizabeth Stephens, a UCSC art professor and environmental activist and Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D. a former feminist porn-star, and pioneering ecosexologist. Last year I attended the 1st Ecosexual Symposium held in Los Angeles, presenting on Green Porn with director Carlos Batts and...
Getting a Taste of Digital Playground’s Jewelbox Cherry
Towards the end of last year I shot with Digital Playground, something that was really exciting for me because it’s a large mainstream company and yet I was offered the opportunity to shoot with them and pretty much be myself. In the series, I play a small but important role, the androgynous DJ Carson who...
J-Bird’s Queer Porn Story
I shot with J-Bird not too long ago on CrashPadSeries.com. I had such a fun, sweet time with him! J-Bird is a hot new genderqueer porn performer on the scene, and definitely a star to look out for. Check out our scene, and be sure to catch him on Twitter, Facebook, and his adorably awesome Youtube Channel. His illustrated queer...
I Masturbate: The Sex-Positive Photo Project
I’m thrilled to be the climax of The Sex Positive Photo Project‘s final day of masturbation photos. Many of you may remember my work with photographer Shilo McCabe in the book “The New Lesbian Sex Book, 3rd Edition“. And recently, I’m featured in more of her photography in the German book “Mein Heimliches Auge” 2011...
Armpit Gaze
I just caught a glimpse of Stoya‘s armpits on Fleshbot, and felt it deserved a moment of praise. Just another example of sexy armpits. The issue examines the “Male Gaze”, something which I’d like to write about soon because I feel there’s a lot to unpack in that term. Until then however, let’s appreciate this...
Fashion Forward Androgyny
A friend on Fetlife tipped me to androgynous fashion model Andrej Pejic. Here’s an arresting image of him, photographed by Armin Morbach. Flamed by gender-bending controversy, the supermodel has walked the runway in men and womens’ designers such as Jean Paul Gaultier. At 19 years old, he has a great attitude about his opportunities and...
I’ll Show You Mine: Book Reveals Beautiful, Diverse Vaginas (Vulvas!)
I am ALL about normalizing and celebrating sexual diversity. Particularly that of our genitalia, its functions, and our desires. Recall the March and April issue of AVN Magazine where my image in Njoy Toy‘s full page ad shows white cream running down my fingers. After I wrote a blog post about it and published the...
Porn performer straddling genders and genres. Works behind the scenes, writes a little, loves a lot. Preferred pronouns: They/Them. [
