Get On My List! 2012 Holiday Card
Can you believe that 2013 is only days away? This year flew by so fast. DON’T BLINK!!! Since my card last year was such a big hit, I’m doing another holiday card this year. The best news?! It’s designed by the fabulous Erika Moen!! Want to be on my mailing list? Here’s how: A) Sign-up for...
Fisting Day October 21st 2012
Courtney Trouble and I created Fisting Day last year to celebrate, educate, and explore the sexual act of hand sex. It all started when “Live Sex Show” was denied inclusion on a VOD website because it included a fisting scene with myself and Nina Hartley. The fisting section of me and Nina’s scene was integral...
CALL FOR SUBMISSIONS: How to Come Out Like a Pornstar, the Book!
The ways in which we “come out” — or DON’T — say a lot about who we are, and how we are perceived. Responses paint a candid portrait of our family, friends and neighbors. Porn is not something many people openly talk about, often out of protection and privacy. Coming out can expose shame as...
Doing It Again: Support Tobi Hill-Meyer’s New Trans Woman Porn Project
Mahatma Gandhi once said, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” Though he may have not been thinking about pornography when he said it, the message most definitely applies to sexual expression and visibility. It’s been my motto, in porn and otherwise — it’s a matter of being pro-active and creating positive...
“Born into Porn” Kickstarter Documentary about Porn and the Family
I’m a big fan of crowdfunding, and frequently search Kickstarter and IndieGoGo for projects related to queer sexuality, gender, pornography, and other things that I find of interest. Such as this new project, a documentary on the private lives of performers who have children, called “Born into Porn.” As a performer myself, I’ve worked with...
Williams Queer Porn Recap
Last weekend I spoke at Williams College as part of the Mike Dively Committee Twentieth Anniversary Celebration, which is funded from an endowment intended “to develop an understanding of human sexuality and sexual orientation and their impact on culture.”
Guest Blogger on Fleshbot.com!
For the week encompassing the Feminist Porn Awards, I am guest blogging at Fleshbot.com! Follow along with Jiz Week, where I’ll be posting random tidbits, as well as updates from the Feminist Porn Awards and events. Have a burning question you want to ask about the Feminist Porn Awards and participants, or something you want me to write...
Good Reads, Great Books
Right now I’m nearing the half-way mark of a new book, “Feed“, by Mira Grant. It’s reminding me how much I love reading, something that I seem to have less and less time for these days. Which means that I have to schedule it into my life and make room for it, something that is...
Photographer Hal’s Flesh Love – Shrink-Wrapped Couples
I spotted this photography project today on Flavorwire. Japanese artist “Photographer Hal” has created the Flesh Love iPad App featuring images of couples who have been shrink-wrapped. I love the concept and am feeling super inspired by the idea. Don’t be surprised if you see something like this coming for Karma Pervs this year… Image:...
2011 Year in Review
What an eventful year it’s been! 2011 was great for me. It was a year jam-packed with travel and fundraising, films and artful activism. Here’s a short recap, if that can even give it justice! Photo: Rae Threat/Fleshbot.com It pretty much started with Stoya and a shaved head, in bed. January was the 2011 AVN Awards...
Fisting Day
Happy International Fisting Day! You ready for a monster post? Well grab your lube, lay back, and relax. It’s late on Thursday night and I’m typing this out at one of my favorite bars, El Rio. San Francisco just felt it’s second earthquake today. It makes me shiver thinking about the fragility of our lives,...
October 21st is Fisting Day 2011
This is an introduction, and an invitation. The introduction is for my longer blog post which I will publish October 21st. The invitation is for you to join me and my friend Courtney Trouble in bringing awareness to one of the most amazing sexual acts I know and love: fisting. Anyone who does it knows...
Valencia: The Movie(s)
I’m stoked to be a [very small but awesome] part of the upcoming film “Valencia: The Movie(s)”, based on Michelle Tea’s book Valencia. This book was one of the sexy catalysts that drove me to want to live in San Francisco… and wouldn’t you know it, I later modeled in Michelle’s book RENT GIRL with...
Ecosex & Art in Ecosexual Symposium SF
This weekend is the 2nd Ecosexual Symposium, the love child of LoveArtLab‘s wedding wives Elizabeth Stephens, a UCSC art professor and environmental activist and Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D. a former feminist porn-star, and pioneering ecosexologist. Last year I attended the 1st Ecosexual Symposium held in Los Angeles, presenting on Green Porn with director Carlos Batts and...
5 Ways YOU Can Fight Porn Piracy
One of the biggest issues facing the adult industry is piracy. In the days of VHS and DVD, file sharing between fans meant burning a copy and hand-walking it over to your buddies. I had an old college friend tell me she was given an untitled disc from a pal of hers who said “this...
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