Raising the Bar, and adjusting it too…

by Jiz Lee on / Sex Toys

Hi Folks! I’m catching up on blogs now that I’m back in SF. (More on my trip back home later!)

First, a rad sex toy that I wanted to share. I recently wrote a review about the Adjustable Spreader Bar for OurChart, which you can read the complete review of here: “Open Wide and Say Aaaah“. Blogging for OurChart is really fun, however they don’t allow me to link to product in my toy reviews, which means that all you lucky readers on my site get to click on all the links you like. Click away!

Adjustable Spreader Bar from Eden Fantasys and Kink Lab (by JT Stockroom)

The toy came in the mail to me from Eden Fantasys (edenfantasys.com), which I gotta say is suddenly doing a real bang up job representing queers. I remember when I first saw the site, and thought, WOW they have a great website — one where you can search for a dildo by dimensions, colors, materials, etc… — the site is incredible, but it was so… bland. And there were some products that were really iffy, cheap, and not so exciting. But recently, they got with the times! They some fucking awesome toys — and are phasing out the not so great ones, good for them! Eden Fantasys also has some great open-minded bloggers helping the company get on the right foot. They’ve got a ton of reviews and experts for all their products. Naturally, the only thing that would make them perfect would be if they sold Pink & White Productions’ DVDs — so ya’ll go over there and bombard their customer service with requests for queer porn!

Back to sex toys. One of the good products from their site is the adjustable spreader bar, from JT Stockroom’s KinkLab.  Sold with great tips and info at Eden Fantasys. They only have it in silver so if you like the way a black bar matches the red head in your life (sexy model and hospital backdrop not included, ha) you’ll have to go to KinkLab to find it in black. But black and silver tie for both being hot in my book, and silver matches the Eleven. So either way, you’ve got a good color choice.

The spreader was really fun to play with. The adjustable length was perfect, and the eye bolts at either end did their job. The attachment rings that set the bar’s length will slip out if pulled directly, which was a little annoying but actually created a fun obsticle to keep my toy tester a steady captive — I had to make sure her hands were no where near the rings, which meant cuffing her wrists and using rope to secure the bar under her knees. Tying hands above the head also works.

It should be said that sometimes with BDSM projects, it’s easiest to take a kinky trip to your local hardware store, however trying to replicate this toy would be a bit of a leap for folks new to DIY sex toy experiements. It’s pretty affordable for how useful and well-made it is, and is also easy to break down and take on the go.  I had fun lifting the bar with one hand and teasing/abusing her beautiful ass with my free hands. (Yay beautiful asses!) I’m also looking forward to trying new positions, and so I recommend this spreader bar for folks who want to try out a new idea.

(By the way, if you want to see great big beautiful images of the bar, take a look at the adjustable spreader bar at EdenFantasys. I happened to like the image above best, and so the credit for the cute red head goes to KinkLab.com.)

Jiz Lee

7 Replies to “Raising the Bar, and adjusting it too…”

Curvaceous Dee

I really need to add a spreader bar to my toy box – I’ve had the pleasure of being, er, spread with a homemade one (an old vacuum cleaner pipe – also adjustable), but alas, that was with a former partner.

Great to read about how this one worked, and I appreciate the review – more knowledge is a good thing. As is hot pictures of red-heads …

xx Dee

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Jiz Lee

Thanks Dee!

I love creative uses for toys.

Have you ever blogged about DIY/Homemade experiments like vacuum cleaner pipes?
I know some folks have short bamboo poles, and it makes me wonder what else might be the perfect toy if put to the right perverted use.

hmmmmm…. *wheels turning for upcoming blog contest idea*

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Curvaceous Dee

You know, I never have! *idea blooms* This despite watching the home-made escapades of many friends, and being a fan of pervertables myself …

Blog contest? Count me in!

xx Dee

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Ian Sparks

Eden is really cool, I couldn’t agree more that they should have Pink & White DVDS. It took awhile with lots of lobbying for them to pick up Trannywood’s DVDs, and they sold out of Couch Surfers right away.

I’ve never used a spreader bar…but you’ve definitely peeked my interest : )

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Jiz Lee

Thanks Ian! I bet LOTS of folks, me included, appreciate your lobbying to get Trannywood up on their site.

I have been finding that I like working with restraints. It’s amazing to be able to push and pull your leg and pelvic muscles against something very sturdy. I think the bar is great because it is so strong. (As opposed to something more flexible with wiggle room like rope. Though rope is also SO much more versatile in possibilities.) I’d love to hear thoughts about swings, in regards to allowing the body have various positions and mobility in juxtaposition to fucking.

Ah, toys. : ))

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Cand86

You know, I first saw this post and was a little like “Oh. Spreader bars. Whatever.”. But then I started thinking about it and a few days later, I started to see how hot they could be- I like the idea how you can forcibly keep someone’s legs open anywhere, anytime, so long as you have your bar- no need to try to find something sturdy to tie them to. I’m getting pretty curious now, and the fantasies are taking shape . . . thanks!

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Jiz Lee

They’re also fun if they’re not as wide as your legs can go, so that they can both keep you from closing your legs, as well as from opening them all the way.

I was interested in the comments that my posting the review on OurChart received; it seemed that many readers were pretty shocked/opposed to the ideas of a spreader bar.

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