I’m Lucky #7 on Violet Blue’s Top Ten Sexy Geeks 2010!
Coming from the sexiest geek herself, Violet Blue, it’s a real honor to be included on this list! I’m flattered — particularly being so new to it all. Around 2006 I started teaching myself how to build basic websites, inspired by a project I was [...]

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When a recent “Facebook revenge” started circulating the internet involving a youth’s sex list, I couldn’t help but cringe.
There’s a lot of real and potential harm in slut-shaming for youths. There are more than a few examples of youth who have been killed, who have committed suicide (incredibly sad), who have struck out against others [...]

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My friend Fivestar is participating in the AIDS/LifeCycle Ride to End AIDS this year. The event is a fully supported, 7-day 545 mile bike ride from San Francisco to Los Angeles that takes place each summer. This year it happens June 6-12. AIDS/LifeCycle is co-produced by the L.A. Gay & Lesbian Center and the San [...]

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After what seemed like years of lamenting with BBW models who have applied to work for kink websites but have never heard back from talent coordinators, and after noticing again and again how models tend to be slender in build, someone has finally created a BBW BDSM website! That someone, is no other than perfect: [...]

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Lately I’ve been asked to do a lot of interviews. Sometimes they’re for magazines and websites, and other times they’re for students writing papers and thesis projects on the subjects of porn, feminism, queers and kink.
I love sharing my thoughts and am thrilled that students are creating dialogue about queer sex, pornography, and are questioning [...]

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