My friend Fivestar is participating in the AIDS/LifeCycle Ride to End AIDS this year. The event is a fully supported, 7-day 545 mile bike ride from San Francisco to Los Angeles that takes place each summer. This year it happens June 6-12. AIDS/LifeCycle is co-produced by the L.A. Gay & Lesbian Center and the San [...]

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After what seemed like years of lamenting with BBW models who have applied to work for kink websites but have never heard back from talent coordinators, and after noticing again and again how models tend to be slender in build, someone has finally created a BBW BDSM website! That someone, is no other than perfect: [...]

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One of the photographers I had the pleasure of shooting with in New York was Aeric Meredith-Goujon.
I found out about his work through Mollena, and was able to meet up with him at the NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar launch to chat about working with him. Aeric had worked for njoy, taking gorgeous photographs for their [...]

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My friend Ignacio of Poly Patao Productions will be in San Francisco next weekend (November 19-22nd) to film for a new documentary called “Shades of Kink.”
If you have connections to a Space, Play-space / Dungeon where Poly Patao Productions can film on November 20th and 21st, please let them know. This would be a donated [...]

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I took my pre-holiday vacation in NYC by going to Audacia’s Sex Worker Literati, the NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar Launch, a signing at Babeland, and the 1st Annual Fleshbot Awards 2009, where Syd Blakovich and I were invited by Fleshbot Editor Lux Alptraum as special guests. It was SUPER glam! Here’s a video clip from [...]

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I’m a bit late in posting this, but better late than never! If you missed the WiredPussy.com shoot with Lorelei Lee, and you love LL plus her request to get gang banged by a room of queer ladies, lesbians, dykes, femmes, genderqueers, butches, and an attentive public then, this is the WiredPussy.com you’ve got to [...]

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Tomorrow night (Saturday 12th) is the Premiere of Speakeasy, directed by Courtney Trouble.
It’s going to be screened at the Kick-Off Party of Good Vibrations‘ Independent Erotic Film Festival (IXFF). The event’s happening at El Rio in San Francisco, and promises to be a good time had by all.

Photo: NoFauxxx.com
I sometimes get nervous watching a film [...]

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“I want to take you to a gay bar, gay bar…”
Ariel X is such a dyke. And to have a kink.com shoot at the Lex, where Princess Donna is no stranger, felt pretty incredible.
Add Dana DeArmond and friends like Syd Blakovich, Fivestar, Carson,  a super secret artstar who shall remain nameless and a BUNCH of [...]

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My shoot on WiredPussy.com with Princess Donna, Vai, and Syd Blakovich is now live. I’m one of the handful of genderqueers to have shot with WiredPussy. I know other queers who have shaved and have ‘femmed-out’ for their appearances on Kink.com websites. I do like to play with my gender in porn, which for me [...]

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Last weekend I attended the Art of Restraint, a Quarterly Benefit for Femina Potens which is by far the best small performance and gallery space in the city for sex positive women & trans artists and art lovers to go. Femina Potens rocks.
And this event was such a melding of community and creative spectacle. I [...]

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