“Does your family know?” It’s a question I get asked a lot and it’s a fairly simple answer: Yes, many close family members know that I do porn, and they support me. And some of them don’t know yet because I want to come out to them when the time is right. Simple enough on [...]
Entries Categorized as 'Gender, Sex'
How to Come Out like a Porn Star
February 3, 2012
Going All the Way – Israeli Gay Safer Sex Ad
December 20, 2011
I found this genderqueer surreal safer sex campaign video thanks to our friends at Fleshbot. It’s hip, bizarre, and ends with a good message. (Spoiler: wear a condom!) We always hear about “saving the children” from things like porn and homosexuals… but judging from this video, it’s we who need saving from them. (Behind the [...]
Gay Gay Gay Gay Gay June
June 21, 2011
(Video for Queerly Beloved. See below for more info.) So much Gay! Every June San Francisco’s Queer Arts Festival bursts with events. Being gay, it’s always a super busy month! Here’s what I’ve got going on, you ready? Wednesday June 22nd SF Bay June Queer/Leather Happy Hour – Pride Edition The Mix SF Come to [...]
Ecosex & Art in Ecosexual Symposium SF
June 18, 2011
This weekend is the 2nd Ecosexual Symposium, the love child of LoveArtLab‘s wedding wives Elizabeth Stephens, a UCSC art professor and environmental activist and Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D. a former feminist porn-star, and pioneering ecosexologist. Last year I attended the 1st Ecosexual Symposium held in Los Angeles, presenting on Green Porn with director Carlos Batts and [...]
Getting a Taste of Digital Playground’s Jewelbox Cherry
June 10, 2011
Towards the end of last year I shot with Digital Playground, something that was really exciting for me because it’s a large mainstream company and yet I was offered the opportunity to shoot with them and pretty much be myself. In the series, I play a small but important role, the androgynous DJ Carson who [...]
J-Bird’s Queer Porn Story
June 2, 2011
I shot with J-Bird not too long ago on CrashPadSeries.com. I had such a fun, sweet time with him! J-Bird is a hot new genderqueer porn performer on the scene, and definitely a star to look out for. Check out our scene, and be sure to catch him on Twitter, Facebook, and his adorably awesome Youtube Channel. His illustrated queer [...]
I Masturbate: The Sex-Positive Photo Project
May 31, 2011
I’m thrilled to be the climax of The Sex Positive Photo Project‘s final day of masturbation photos. Many of you may remember my work with photographer Shilo McCabe in the book “The New Lesbian Sex Book, 3rd Edition“. And recently, I’m featured in more of her photography in the German book “Mein Heimliches Auge” 2011 [...]
Armpit Gaze
May 26, 2011
I just caught a glimpse of Stoya‘s armpits on Fleshbot, and felt it deserved a moment of praise. Just another example of sexy armpits. The issue examines the “Male Gaze”, something which I’d like to write about soon because I feel there’s a lot to unpack in that term. Until then however, let’s appreciate this [...]
Fashion Forward Androgyny
May 20, 2011
A friend on Fetlife tipped me to androgynous fashion model Andrej Pejic. Here’s an arresting image of him, photographed by Armin Morbach. Flamed by gender-bending controversy, the supermodel has walked the runway in men and womens’ designers such as Jean Paul Gaultier. At 19 years old, he has a great attitude about his opportunities and [...]
I’ll Show You Mine: Book Reveals Beautiful, Diverse Vaginas (Vulvas!)
May 17, 2011
I am ALL about normalizing and celebrating sexual diversity. Particularly that of our genitalia, its functions, and our desires. Recall the March and April issue of AVN Magazine where my image in Njoy Toy‘s full page ad shows white cream running down my fingers. After I wrote a blog post about it and published the [...]
