THE SKINNY
THE SKINNY centers on a group of four young, black, gay men — Magnus, Sebastian, Kyle, Joey — and their lesbian friend Langston, who meet up in New York City after a year after graduation from Brown University. From skinnythemovie.com: “Drinking, drugs, hidden desire and the demands of promiscuity put friendship, trust and even lives at...
Intersections of Erotic Performance Art & Pornography
I’m on the road again, this time headed to SXSW. It’s been a few years since I’ve attended the annual Music/Film/Tech conference, and so I was excited to be invited by Femina Potens to present at one of the special after events. The event will be a series of short presentations, followed by a panel...
How to Come Out like a Porn Star
“Does your family know?” It’s a question I get asked a lot and it’s a fairly simple answer: Yes, many close family members know that I do porn, and they support me. And some of them I haven’t told yet because I want to come out to them when the time is right. Simple enough...
Gay Gay Gay Gay Gay June
(Video for Queerly Beloved. See below for more info.) So much Gay! Every June San Francisco’s Queer Arts Festival bursts with events. Being gay, it’s always a super busy month! Here’s what I’ve got going on, you ready? Wednesday June 22nd SF Bay June Queer/Leather Happy Hour – Pride Edition The Mix SF Come to...
Ecosex & Art in Ecosexual Symposium SF
This weekend is the 2nd Ecosexual Symposium, the love child of LoveArtLab‘s wedding wives Elizabeth Stephens, a UCSC art professor and environmental activist and Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D. a former feminist porn-star, and pioneering ecosexologist. Last year I attended the 1st Ecosexual Symposium held in Los Angeles, presenting on Green Porn with director Carlos Batts and...
Getting a Taste of Digital Playground’s Jewelbox Cherry
Towards the end of last year I shot with Digital Playground, something that was really exciting for me because it’s a large mainstream company and yet I was offered the opportunity to shoot with them and pretty much be myself. In the series, I play a small but important role, the androgynous DJ Carson who...
J-Bird’s Queer Porn Story
I shot with J-Bird not too long ago on CrashPadSeries.com. I had such a fun, sweet time with him! J-Bird is a hot new genderqueer porn performer on the scene, and definitely a star to look out for. Check out our scene, and be sure to catch him on Twitter, Facebook, and his adorably awesome Youtube Channel. His illustrated queer...
I Masturbate: The Sex-Positive Photo Project
I’m thrilled to be the climax of The Sex Positive Photo Project‘s final day of masturbation photos. Many of you may remember my work with photographer Shilo McCabe in the book “The New Lesbian Sex Book, 3rd Edition“. And recently, I’m featured in more of her photography in the German book “Mein Heimliches Auge” 2011...
Armpit Gaze
I just caught a glimpse of Stoya‘s armpits on Fleshbot, and felt it deserved a moment of praise. Just another example of sexy armpits. The issue examines the “Male Gaze”, something which I’d like to write about soon because I feel there’s a lot to unpack in that term. Until then however, let’s appreciate this...
Fashion Forward Androgyny
A friend on Fetlife tipped me to androgynous fashion model Andrej Pejic. Here’s an arresting image of him, photographed by Armin Morbach. Flamed by gender-bending controversy, the supermodel has walked the runway in men and womens’ designers such as Jean Paul Gaultier. At 19 years old, he has a great attitude about his opportunities and...
I’ll Show You Mine: Book Reveals Beautiful, Diverse Vaginas (Vulvas!)
I am ALL about normalizing and celebrating sexual diversity. Particularly that of our genitalia, its functions, and our desires. Recall the March and April issue of AVN Magazine where my image in Njoy Toy‘s full page ad shows white cream running down my fingers. After I wrote a blog post about it and published the...
Girl Talk
There’s a great event happening tomorrow, which a friend of mine is co-curating/co-hosting called this Thursday, called “Girl Talk: A Trans & Cis Woman Dialogue”. If you’re in San Francisco, definitely check it out! I attended last year, and it was a powerful dialogue indeed! Girl Talk: A Trans & Cis Woman Dialogue Thursday, March...
There’s Jiz on AVN Magazine… literally, real cream.
I am so proud of this full page ad by Njoy in the current issue of AVN Magazine. AVN, or “Adult Video News” is an industry publication for retailers and distributors who work with adult movies and sex toys. In general, the magazine offers what you’d traditionally expect of the mainstream adult industry. Sometimes there...
What is Genderqueer?
For the last year I’ve been more visible about being genderqueer. It’s an identity I feel is very important to put forward, especially as I find myself receiving more mainstream attention, though I could just as easily identify with any number of other identities I hold to my being. Despite the fact that I’ve used...
My Fucking Dirty Thirty
Wow! I am the luckiest 30 year old on the planet. For my birthday I had a 30-person (Plus ME for good luck!) orgy at CrashPadSeries.com. I invited all the cast from the site, as well as some friends I knew were in town who are the porny type. Shine Louise Houston and I had...
