A Lesson on Sex Shaming: Oregon State University & Tristan Taormino’s Porn
Chances are, if you know me, you know Tristan Taormino. Though HOW you know of her may vary. You may know her from her extensive career as an author and editor. Or you may know her from her numerous sex education and relationship workshops, and speaking and keynote presentations throughout the world. And, you may...
Buy Smut to Wine & Dine Me!
UPDATE! Thank you so much everyone for purchasing an item and supporting me! The deadline for this special order offer was Wednesday, and yesterday I sent a bunch of signed photos with personal stories, and autographed DVDs off to wonderful friends. I did not find a buyer for the “slightly well-used but cleaned” Bandit VixSkin...
Karma Pervs 2010 Wrap-Up: A Year in Donations
It’s hard to believe next year is already next week! 2010 marked a lot of things for me, and perhaps I’ll cover that in another year-in-review post, but for the moment one of the biggest things twenty-ten saw was the launch of my experimental philanthropic project Karma Pervs. What is Karma Pervs? In a nutshell:...
AVN Awards 2011: Queers, Friends, and Beyond
I started this post last night, but then started to add links, and whoa there’s a lot… so it goes up this morning. Tonight I’m sitting in the same spot at the same cafe where earlier this year a very hot budding porn performer and good buddy Mickey Mod told me — and asked me...
November Karma Pervs: Red Umbrella Diaries
What is Karma Pervs? In a nutshell: It’s a porn fundraiser. I choose a charity each month – members see sexy photos for a good cause! I post a unique photo set of pictures related to the cause and at the end of the month 100% is donated to the organization. Sign up to support,...
Promote the Positive — Body-Positive!
Photo: International Ms Leather 2010 Mollena via www.adipositivity.com There’s a womens’ magazine with an article up right now that is inexcusably cruel. I wont get into the details as I’m sure you’ve all seen it. It is offensive, and happens to be driving incredible traffic. If you don’t know what I’m referring to, you will soon as...
Purple
Today people across the internet are encouraging one another to wear the color purple as a visual statement bringing awareness to the recent suicides of bullied queer/gender-variant youth. Even companies — especially ones with young demographics such as Tumblr‘s purple dashboard — are getting involved. Besides donning the color purple, I’m interested in additional ways to find a...
Have a Hand in “Smut Capital of America”
I’ve had a budding interest in the sexual history of San Francisco ever since moving to the Bay Area in 1999. It was clear that social and political movements start in the bay area. Even at this exact moment, I feel like I’ve been an integral part of a queer porn revolution in terms of...
National Coming Out Day!
Happy National Coming Out Day! I’m going to be writing this loosely as I have had an amazing weekend with some sweet new lovers and while I wont kiss and tell too much, I will say that I have had 48 hours of orgasmic bliss and hardcore loving, and am still reeling from the affection....
I’m Good Releasing’s Porn Star of the Month!
I’m incredibly honored to be named Good Releasing’s Star of the Month. Good Releasing is GoodVibes.com‘s sister company, a video production company which creates and distributes adult movies in three video lines: Reel Queer Productions, HeartCore Films, and Pleasure-Ed Series. Good Releasing was nominated last year for Best New Video Company, and has really pushed...
Buy My Cock! The Johnny from Belladonna’s Strapped Dykes
That’s right, I’m selling one of my cocks. If you’re a hardcore fan of Belladonna’s Strapped Dykes and would like to be the owner of one of Vixen Creations‘ amazing dildos, now’s your chance to get a piece of the action! I’m selling the cock used in my scene with Belladonna to fund my trip back...
August Karma Pervs – Femina Potens
What is Karma Pervs? In a nutshell: It’s a porn fundraiser. I choose a charity each month – members see sexy photos for a good cause! I post a unique photo set of pictures related to the cause and at the end of the month 100% is donated to the organization. Sign up to support,...
July Karma Pervs – Lyon-Martin Health Services
I can’t say enough good things about Lyon-Martin. Lyon-Martin is where I’ve gone for my personal gyno visits, and where I’ve gone with poly lovers for STI testing. It’s at the heart of one of my largest communities, the SF community of queer women, trans and genderqueer people. And if you think the name “Lyon-Martin”...
Go on a Date with me in October! 2011 Sex Blogger Calendar
Well, not an actual date with a capital “D”, but a date that will certainly win me over! I will be a featured model in a very special calendar. It’s the 2011 Sex Bloggers Calendar, a benefit for the Woodhull Freedom Foundation, which promotes and protects sexual freedom as a fundamental human right, a mission...
