“Does your family know?” It’s a question I get asked a lot and it’s a fairly simple answer: Yes, many close family members know that I do porn, and they support me. And some of them don’t know yet because I want to come out to them when the time is right. Simple enough on [...]
Entries Categorized as 'Poly Love'
How to Come Out like a Porn Star
February 3, 2012
My Fucking Dirty Thirty
November 4, 2010
Wow! I am the luckiest 30 year old on the planet. For my birthday I had a 30-person (Plus ME for good luck!) orgy at CrashPadSeries.com. I invited all the cast from the site, as well as some friends I knew were in town who are the porny type. Shine Louise Houston and I had [...]
PaddedKINK – Queer and Cold
September 1, 2010
Did you know there’s a body-positive kink porn site? It’s called PaddedKINK.com. It also happens to be queer friendly as well; Courtney Trouble and I shot for one of the scenes, and it was a smash hit. I was really flattered to be a part of it, not only because I applaud the creation of [...]
Musings on Non-Monogamy
April 15, 2010
Always a fan of maps and diagrams, such as the ever popular Obsidian Fields Poster of the Map of Human Sexuality, I was happy to find a diagram of non-monogamous relationships on Franklin Veaux’s Journal Sexual Informatics: Non-Monogamy: There are a couple of things this brings up for me, including the idea of “cheating”, as [...]
Speakeasy Queer Porn Film Noir Remakes Classic Adult with Femmes, FtMs, and GenderQueers
September 11, 2009
Tomorrow night (Saturday 12th) is the Premiere of Speakeasy, directed by Courtney Trouble. It’s going to be screened at the Kick-Off Party of Good Vibrations‘ Independent Erotic Film Festival (IXFF). The event’s happening at El Rio in San Francisco, and promises to be a good time had by all. Photo: NoFauxxx.com I sometimes get nervous [...]
digital scrapbook: 4 year anniversary
April 11, 2009
I keep an old school (aka paper) moleskin datebook. No iPhone or PalmPilot (or even Google Calendar) for me, thanks. Everything I do that involves timeliness and the rotation of the sun must be put in writing in a little black, lined book. When the year is done, it is thrown into a box where [...]
6 Basic Needs
February 11, 2009
“It’s complicated.” Love is a beautiful, dangerous, inspiring, and complicated kick in the ass. I’m in open relationships. In the past I was non-consensually non-monogamous… aka I cheated, a lot. In the past five years or so, I’ve been learning how to communicate honestly, which included being more truthful to myself. That might be the [...]
Twincest’s Death
January 25, 2009
Last night our performance art duo twincest met our timely death at the hands of a drunken mob. Shawn and I performed at CounterPULSE Theater, with pinata replicas of our twin-like selves. It was a benefit for Jess Curtis/Gravity who will be performing their full length show in March. Jess introduced us. We invited the [...]
Clothespins Dare for The Social
January 17, 2009
I helped Fivestar (iamfivestar.com) with her dare for Elle‘s The Social to see how many clothespins her flesh could accommodate at once. It was a lovely experience and I’m looking forward to more! Fivestar documented it on flickr and via her video blog. Here’s a quick pick of the aftermath, save one tremendously teasing pin… [...]
Bondage at Fort Ord
January 6, 2009
Last weekend I had the pleasure of joining Fivestar and photographer Terrence Taylor for a bondage photography shoot in the abandoned Fort Ord in Monterey Bay. Terry was such a pleasure to meet, and I had a fantastic time exploring rope. Truth be told, rope bondage is still a very new sensation for me. I [...]
