I keep an old school (aka paper) moleskin datebook. No iPhone or PalmPilot (or even Google Calendar) for me, thanks. Everything I do that involves timeliness and the rotation of the sun must be put in writing in a little black, lined book.

When the year is done, it is thrown into a box where I can then look back and say, holy shit. What a year!
It feels that way thinking back at relationships, too.

April 7th 2009 marked the 4 year anniversary of me and Shawn (aka Syd Blakovich). More specifically, the fourth year since our very first date. It’s been an open, loving, intense, emotional, supportive, momentous, art-filled, passionate bunch of years. We rocked SF’s artsphere with twincest, our multi-genre performance duo. We bukkake’d the adult industry with a smash hit of Pink & White and other queer works by filling the big screen with our love juices. We gathered around friends and lovers to create art, community, sex, chaos, and sleeplessness. We experienced the passing of loved ones and the births and joining of new lives. And we redefined our love and relationship more times than Madonna – only without the cultural appropriation.

Here’s a brief trip down laptop memory lane… to continued love-art-porn (and documentation)!

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Dyke March 05, back when I could hold my own with her in the ring.

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The Crash Pad publicity photos. WTF is going on with our hair?

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Hyphen interview, some of the more classy photos, thanks Leilani.

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Our own are pretty trashy… this is twincest’s version of Mary Kate & Ashley

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Unisex, photo by Mia Knockano

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One from our bathtub series. We clean up well.
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Can this please end up somewhere on the internet as a WTF photo? Credit: TWINCEST.NET thx!
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Censorship panel discussion at the old location of Femina Potens.
Despite the RAD people on the panel and the engaging discussion, we all look bored out of our skulls.
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Fun times with Baguettes at an early Pink & White Meet and Greet party. I think Violet Blue took this image. Couple on the right is Princess Donna and Lorelei Lee.
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Still from BehindKink.com documentary on how Shawn and I trashed Mr. Pam‘s kitchen.
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One of my favorite photos, taken by Shilo McCabe, because you can see Shawn’s wedding ring…

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Shawn and I have an open relationship, which sometimes includes group sexing.
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I found these photos from my camera, time to put them online.

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Our sand crab.

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Awwww… the end. For now. :)