Duck, Duck, Duck, Girl/Girl
by Jiz Lee ~ April 29, 2008
I thought I’d post some reasons why Girl/Girl is sometimes hot.
Just as watching Gay porn is hot, so is Girl/Girl porn, a genre that falls under “straight” in the Adult DVD meccas of the world. In an earlier post, I mused on the idea of viewing Gay porn as a means of being a “social voyeur” — it’s a way into the world of steamy anal fisting, young twink seducing, daddy/boy scenarios, and rent boy situations that I just can’t get away with in the real world. Yummy Gooey Jock Straps. And lots of thick oozy cum. Because I would have a very hard time passing in the Castro and having this kind of sex, it lights up the screen and… wow! I watch it, I use it for role playing ideas, I like it.
That said, as a person who identifies as genderqueer, I don’t fit in to either male or female world. This very fact is also what makes Girl/Girl porn a curious and fascinating sexual treat for me to watch. And, yes… I think it’s hot too!
I think the “male gaze” power dynamic of Girl/Girl scenes is kinky. Have you ever fantasized about being forced to have sex — whether physically, mentally… or situationally, etc? Sometimes I play out Girl/Girl pornstar role-play and fantasy, which is almost always directly tied to the porn industry itself. …For example, I’m a beautiful blonde up-and-coming starlet who is trying to get her foot in the door. I’m on the first or second shoot for a porno, and the director (who of course is sleazy) asks me to have sex with another girl on the set. Even the thought of eating pussy makes me gag, but I do it anyway, because I don’t want to jeopardize my new career. Humiliated, I pretend to act like I like it, shoving random fingers blindly into tight little holes and tossing my hair out of the way for the camera. I moan like I really really really mean it, and I try desperately to communicate with my equally grossed out co-star by sucking air through my teeth and switching fingers, along with another toss of hair…
(See? Isn’t that fun?)
Try fucking with one finger — it’s a great turn on. I think the fact that the girls obviously are not getting what they want is part of it too. Scientists propose that we are aroused by porn because it makes our brains believe we are actually doing what we’re watching? Well, a 20 minute scene with what many of us could call “foreplay” is a great tease.
Hmmm… okay, I can’t end this post without acknowledging the “REAL” Girl on Girl action. The line between fake Girl/Girl and real Femme/Femme is sometimes blurry. Which is when you get rare diamond dykestars of the porn industry — bad-ass femmes who know how to fuck a female. Belladonna is one for me. She and her co-stars are femme as hell but that doesn’t stop their G/G from going full-throttle. A ton of dykes heart Belladonna. Others include Lorelei Lee, Princess Donna, and Dana DeArmond. When feminine ladies fuck their brains out and really love it, it can’t help but be hot…
Fortunately, they LOVE Pink & White Productions. Superfreak’s award winning (Hottest Dyke Sex Scene 2007) with the femme three-way with Lorelei, Princess Donna, and Dana shoots any girl/girl scene out of the water. “Femme on Femme, Freak on Freak” is the tagline! Check out CrashPadSeries.com’s latest episode (it went live last weekend) with Princess Donna, Lorelei Lee, and Donna’s real life ftm partner Jake. Hot Hot Hot.
I personally love that we can essentially experience fucking other people, other genders, etc… through porno. Do we ever really think about WHY we watch porn? What do you like to watch?
April 30th, 2008 at 5:17 pm
This is quite an interesting post, really gets me thinking. I’ve always had difficulty understanding how any woman (or lesbian-enlightened man) could get off on girl/girl porn . . . I suppose I had this idea that if they only knew what it could really be like, they’d be cured of the fake girl-on-girl stuff. Which is completely silly; people watch what they like, and your story totally gets me going. That said, I still can’t really get into girl/girl- I need at least some element of passionate connection if there’s no pleasure.
But I absolutely love watching porn to vicariously experience other sexualities and genders- I’m as crazy about the gayboy porn as you are, I think, and I can often get really into a POV blowjob, imagining myself as the rest of the body outside the camera shot. And I have quite a hankering sometimes for ‘shemale’ porn. Whether it’s me imagining being a pre-op transwoman myself, or creating some fantastical story akin to yours about a little shemale doing a shoot to get that last bit of money for her surgery, and becoming surprisingly turned on by it. Still not sure, but it has this allure, regardless of how exploitative I know it often is.
Anyways, great post! Keep bloggin’!
April 30th, 2008 at 5:38 pm
I wonder if we always place ourselves in the female role, whether it straight biologically born women, or a pre-op transwoman — because the post-op transwoman is almost invisible in porn, save for Pink & White.
Does anyone fantasize about being the male director? Or the male viewer? Sometimes I do; this is a little off topic, but I occasionally go to a strip club where some friends work, called the Lusty Lady. How I WISH I could pass as a man once in the peep booth — because I long for the response that would get me. Instead, I get friendly hellos, from my friends, or their dancing co-workers, who drop their performance to say hi to me. I’d rather get a slutty crotch pressed against the window than a friendly smile. You know? I think that is part of the male gaze that I want to see, and where mainstream porn can satisfy.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:49 am
I have absolutely no idea why I watch porn I’ve been obsessed with it since I was 10. I think in my mind it’s just the greatest TV show ever. When I was 12 I wanted to be a camera woman so I could watch porn all day. I always had to censor my thoughts when adults asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I think I’m really drawn to rough and sloppy behavior in porn. Lately I have been really drawn to this one foreign film where this guy just kinda comes out of no where and fucks this woman at no less then 10mph he cums and she just has this look on her face like what the hell was that. I feel like I can relate to both of them and I love the fact that she doesn’t hide her disappointment. I really love gay male porn the rougher the better it totally speaks to my faggy side.
I’ve been trying to get into girl/girl stuff but I never really know how to process it. I think the line between Girl/Girl and Femme/Femme is blurry for me. I see make-up and I automatically associate it with loud moaning and sadness. I know there is some good stuff out there I’ve just been avoiding it.
May 1st, 2008 at 11:57 am
OMG, I *must* know the name of the foreign film you’re talking about!!!
May 1st, 2008 at 3:46 pm
I checked it and I must have downloaded it a long time ago because it only says quick fuck on it, I also found out they are speaking Portuguese.
I have another film with the same actor in it called Incesto à Portuguesa I think it’s the same guy anyway they have the same style, the guy moves like a jack hammer.
May 1st, 2008 at 7:09 pm
Wow . . . I actually think I saw a clip of whatever you’re talking about, Angry- on Xtube, maybe? I think it got removed, but I remember it being [supposedly] incest, and the girl obviously wanted him (it wasn’t nonconsensual), but he was so rough and careless that by the end she was a little tearful and very dazed- no pretense of her pleasure at all. Almost not hot, but it still got to me.
I wonder if they’re the same?