Sex Toys
These toys are the real stars. Many of these links go to great sex toy store affiliates, meaning that if you purchase it through clicking from this page, I get a percentage of the sale! The toy companies that I’ll make a commission from include: GoodVibes.com and Stockroom.com (for the kinky stuff). Happy shopping!
The luckiest Outlaw Dildo on the planet. Photo: Fleshbot.com Awards: Lorelei Lee, Jiz Lee & Joanna Angel; Nikola Tamindzic (homeofthevain.com)
Outlaw Dildo
The Outlaw Dildo is fucking mammoth. It’s 8 ½” long, 2″ in diameter and delicious Vixskin silicone that means it’s soft on the outside and hard on the inside. It’s a good strap-on dildo that also has balls. It comes in three shades of flesh tone and runs about $120. I packed it at the Fleshbot Awards and was so glad I did. GoodVibes.com
Shown: Njoy Eleven Metal Dildo. Photo: Dylan Ryan & Jiz Lee, CrashPadSeries.com
If there were a toy of the year — and I’m sure, somewhere, there is — the Njoy Eleven would be it. I have one, and I also bought one for Syd. I have taken it to the Masturbate-a-thon, and to LA and I have also shot with it and use it at home and as a kegel excersicer. It’s heavy, large, and like nothing else. It prices at about $300 but is worth it’s weight in gold. Babeland.com
Shown: Njoy Pure Wand Metal Dildo. Photo: Jiz Lee, GUSH: The Official Guide to the G-Spot & Female Ejaculation
If the Eleven is a notch too high, the Pure Wand might be better suited. Its hard C-curve makes a great handle for hitting the feel-good spot, and for many, THIS is the first toy to help them squirt. GoodVibes.com
White Jaguar Lux, Joque Harness, and TWO Caramel colored Outlaw Dildos.
Photo: Jiz Lee, Syd Blakovich, and Madison Young in Nostalgia; CourtneyTrouble.com
I wear the Jaguar Lux Harness almost all the time. It’s a nice fitting two-strap sturdy harness that is low-riding and aesthetically hip. The Harness comes in a lot of colors, from black to red, to even silver. White may be the hardest to come by. It runs around $100. ASLAN Leather
The Joque Harness may be hands-down the most comfortable harness ever made. It is Spandex/polyester and feels like a speedo. The harness is also a lot easier to clean than leather; it’s another 2-strap design that is machine-washable and the velcro straps are adjustable. This harness is also about $100 and comes in many different colors. GoodVibes.com
The RodeoH harness is the closest thing to not wearing a harness at all. Snug as your favorite boy briefs, they are high-quality underwear with a fabric divider and secure O-ring sewn in place. A simple and really fucking hot design, perfect for staying in bed all day. Best worn with medium to small dildos and best used by the big spoon. RodeoH.com
Shown: Twisted Monk Hemp Rope Starter Kit
Photo: Dallas Fivestar & Jiz Lee; CrashPadSeries.com, Crash Pad Series Volume 4: Rope Burn
I was lucky to be introduced to rope bondage and had amazing experiences on screen with Dallas in CrashPadSeries.com and also in Speakeasy. Twisted Monk packages rope kits which include two 10 ft., a 30 ft. rope and a pair of EMT safety sisscors. Great first purchase for a rope tying class. Red, Natural, Black. Runs about $60. stockroom
Shown: Hitachi Magic Wand and Black Gloves
Photo: Rozen DeBowe, Syd Blakovich & Jiz Lee in Roulette; CourtneyTrouble.com
Barriers like latex and non-latex gloves are a perfect sex toy. I brought a BOX of nitrile black gloves to the set of Seven Minutes in Heaven: Tender Hearted for the cast to go NUTS with. A gloved-hand is a smoother entry, and also is protected from any cuts on the hand and long or jagged nails. Prices range about a box of 100 for $20. babeland.com
The Hitachi Magic Wand is an instant orgasm. For many people, it’s the toy they never put away. It has two settings, “On” and “ON!!!”. (Those aren’t really what they’re called, but I think it’s what they feel like.) The stimulation can be a little too intense for some. Also some people put a pillow or jeans between the vibe and their crotch. Around $54. GoodVibes.com
The Acuvibe Rechargeable Vibe is not as strong as the Hitachi (which can be a good thing some times), but it is rechargeable which means it’s not held down by a cord. Also, it’s completely black which is super sexy. GoodVibes.com
This hunky Vixen Creations silicone dildo is made with a patented dual-density material that is firm on the inner core, and softer and more giving on the outter girth. It’s a large toy at 7″ x 2″ and comes in 3 realistic flesh shades. It’s well worth the price and is a solid harnessable cock. It runs around $100. GoodVibes.com
Randy Dildo
A 6″ x 2 1/4″ Vixen Creations dildo, the Randy is made of a solid firm silicone material, so it does feel a lot wider. In general, the “firmer” a toy, the “wider” it feels inside. This one costs about $70, and also very worth the price. babeland
These are some of the most affordable condoms I’ve found, and I purchase them in bulk. I use them for the Hitachi Magic Wand (the head contains potentially harmful plastics, and is kind of a pain to clean so using a condom makes it safer, safer to share, and easier to keep clean. These condoms are also great on toys for a similar reason. $.15 each.goodvibes.com
Lifestyle Skyn Non-latex Condoms
Lifestyle Skyn Condoms are Non-Latex, which makes them perfect for people with latex sensitivities. $1.50 each. goodvibes.com
Pleasureglide is one of my favorite lubricants. It is non-glycerin and very natural and gentle on the body. It’s also water-based so it is safe with silicone toys. It’s a good choice for people prone to yeast infections or sensitivities to lube. $12. goodvibes.com
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The Good Vibes Sailor Soft Pack is a great soft dildo for packing (personally, I think it’s fun for soft insertion with role-playing). It’s available in two lenths, and three skin-like shades of silicone. It’s also very easy to keep clean. It’s not technically a “toy” per se, but definitely falls inline with gender and sexual expression for me, and I keep it with my dildos. $24-28 goodvibes.com
The Pete Packing Freestyle Jock is made by SpareParts which is the same company who makes the Spareparts Joque Harness. It is SUPER comfortable and the best thing I’ve seen for a packing strap. Also it’s great for STP soft packs or solid silicone or softskin types. I can’t recommend it highly enough. And if you don’t like a jock strap style, there’s briefs or trunks of many sizes. goodvibes.com
Also not exactly a toy are these Frog Bras from Title Nine Sports. They’re similar to binders though not as long down the torso. They’re very well designed and good quality. About $32. titlenine.com
Recommended Sex Toy Stores:
- GoodVibes.com- Dyke & Lesbian Shopping Guide, FtM Shopping Guide, and Queer Porn Videos
- Babeland.com – Harnesses, Sex Toy Specials, and New Sex Toys
- Stockroom.com – Instructional BDSM Video, SeXmas Sale, and Kinklab
- Also: Smitten Kitten and in Canada there’s GoodForHer.com and Come As You Are (Caya).
