Shown: Njoy Eleven Metal Dildo. Photo: Dylan Ryan & Jiz Lee, CrashPadSeries.com

1. Eleven Dildo
If there were a toy of the year — and I’m sure, somewhere, there is — the Njoy Eleven would be it. I have one, and I also bought one for Syd. I have taken it to the Masturbate-a-thon, and to LA and I have also shot with it and use it at home and as a kegel excersicer. It’s heavy, large, and like nothing else. It prices at about $300 but is worth it’s weight in gold. Babeland.com

The luckiest Outlaw Dildo on the planet. Photo: Fleshbot.com Awards: Lorelei Lee, Jiz Lee & Joanna Angel; Nikola Tamindzic (homeofthevain.com)

2. Outlaw Dildo
The Outlaw Dildo is fucking mammoth. It’s 8 ½” long, 2” in diameter and delicious Vixskin silicone that means it’s soft on the outside and hard on the inside. It’s a good strap-on dildo that also has balls. It comes in three shades of flesh tone and runs about $120. I packed it at the Fleshbot Awards and was so glad I did. Babeland.com

White Jaguar Lux, Joque Harness, and TWO Caramel colored Outlaw Dildos.
Photo: Jiz Lee, Syd Blakovich, and Madison Young in Nostalgia; CourtneyTrouble.com

3a. White Jaguar Lux Harness
I wear the Jaguar Lux Harness almost all the time. It’s a nice fitting two-strap sturdy harness that is low-riding and aesthetically hip. The Harness comes in a lot of colors, from black to red, to even silver. White may be the hardest to come by. It runs around $100. Babeland.com

3b. Joque Harness
The Joque Harness may be hands-down the most comfortable harness ever made. It is Spandex/polyester and feels like a speedo. The harness is also a lot easier to clean than leather; it’s another 2-strap design that is machine-washable and the velcro straps are adjustable. This harness is also about $100 and comes in many different colors. babeland.com

3c. Lorica G-String Harness
With all the 2-strap harnesses I thought I should include my favorite single strap variety. Though it’s not the most suited for “easy access” like the 2-straps, the single “G-string” style does allow for pretty awesome stimulation for the wearer. At a little under $30, it’s also a LOT cheaper than the previous two harnesses. veganerotica.com

Shown: Twisted Monk Hemp Rope Starter Kit
Photo: Dallas Fivestar & Jiz Lee; CrashPadSeries.com, Crash Pad Series Volume 4: Rope Burn

5. Hemp Rope Starter Kit
I was lucky to be introduced to rope bondage and had amazing experiences on screen with Dallas in CrashPadSeries.com and also in Speakeasy. Twisted Monk packages rope kits which include two 10 ft., a 30 ft. rope and a pair of EMT safety sisscors. Great first purchase for a rope tying class. Red, Natural, Black. Runs about $60. stockroom

Shown: Hitachi Magic Wand and Black Gloves
Photo: Rozen DeBowe, Syd Blakovich & Jiz Lee in Roulette; CourtneyTrouble.com

6. Nitrile Black Dragon Gloves
Barriers like latex and non-latex gloves are a perfect sex toy. I brought a BOX of nitrile black gloves to the set of Seven Minutes in Heaven: Tender Hearted for the cast to go NUTS with. A gloved-hand is a smoother entry, and also is protected from any cuts on the hand and long or jagged nails. Prices range about a box of 100 for $20. babeland.com

7. Hitachi Magic Wand
The Hitachi Magic Wand is an instant orgasm. For many people, it’s the toy they never put away. It has two settings, “On” and “ON!!!”. (Those aren’t really what they’re called, but I think it’s what they feel like.) The stimulation can be a little too intense for some. Also some people put a pillow or jeans between the vibe and their crotch. Around $54. babeland.com

8. Maverick Dildo.
This hunky Vixen Creations silicone dildo is made with a patented dual-density material that is firm on the inner core, and softer and more giving on the outter girth. It’s a large toy at 7″ x 2″ and comes in 3 realistic flesh shades. It’s well worth the price and is a solid harnessable cock. It runs around $100. VixenCreations.com

9. Randy Dildo.

A 6″ x 2 1/4″ Vixen Creations dildo, the Randy is made of a solid firm silicone material, so it does feel a lot wider. In general, the “firmer” a toy, the “wider” it feels inside. This one costs about $70, and also very worth the price. babeland

10a. Premium Condoms
These are some of the most affordable condoms I’ve found, and I purchase them in bulk. I use them for the Hitachi Magic Wand (the head contains potentially harmful plastics, and is kind of a pain to clean so using a condom makes it safer, safer to share, and easier to keep clean. These condoms are also great on toys for a similar reason. $.15 each.goodvibes.com

10b. Trojan Supra Non-latex Condoms
Trojan Supra Condoms are Non-Latex, which makes them perfect for people with latex sensitivities. $2.00 each. goodvibes.com

10c.
Pleasureglide
Pleasureglide is one of my favorite lubricants. It is non-glycerin and very natural and gentle on the body. It’s also water-based so it is safe with silicone toys. It’s a good choice for people prone to yeast infections or sensitivities to lube. $12. goodvibes.com

10d. Please Gel Lube
Please Gel is a thick lubricant in gel form that provides a great “cushion” and for this reason is nice for anal sex. I don’t recommend getting the smallest size of this lube, as the gel is so thick it is difficult to get out of the container. The pump bottles are the most effective. Also, keep lube out of sunny spots in your room, or they will tend to dry up. $16-$26 goodvibes.com

Extra!

GV Soft Pack
The Good Vibes Soft Pack is a great soft dildo for packing (personally, I think it’s fun for soft insertion with role-playing). It’s available in two lenths, and three skin-like shades of silicone. It’s also very easy to keep clean. It’s not technically a “toy” per se, but definitely falls inline with gender and sexual expression for me, and I keep it with my dildos. $24-28 goodvibes.com

Frog Bra from Title Nine
Also not exactly a toy are these Frog Bras from Title Nine Sports. They’re similar to binders though not as long down the torso. They’re very well designed and good quality. About $32.titlenine.com